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In Loving Memory of

Toby Elrod

May 22nd, 2025

Obituary

Toby Elrod, nee Rapaport, age 90, surrounded by her devoted family at the time of her passing. She was the beloved wife of the late Jerry Elrod and the late Sheldon Donenberg; loving mother of Dorie (late Julius) Kole, Ben (Ellen Dinerman) Donenberg, Phillip (Robin) Donenberg, Geri (Kenneth Carlton) Donenberg, and the late Elliot (Joyce) Elrod; adored grandma of Ryan (Betsy), Freddie (Karen), Abby (Adam), Sari (Josh), Erin (Adin), Emily (Daniel), Felicia (Patrick), Sean (Merve), Emilia, Ben, Matthew, Sheldon (Evelyn) and Izzy; proud great grandmother of Rachel, Adam, Jordan, Taylor, Josh, Charlie, Austin, Romi, Miles, Lily, Cooper, and Mikail; devoted daughter of the late Benjamin and the late Etta Rapaport; cherished sister of the late Patsy Barron Eisen; treasured aunt, cousin and friend to many. Toby’s love for her children, grandchildren and great grandchildren was boundless, and her affection extended to her cousins, nephews and circle of friends. She was the most accepting person of anyone we knew. Open arms and never judgement. Ever. She was brave and courageous as she navigated life’s challenges, until the very end.

Graveside service Friday, 12 Noon CT, at Westlawn Cemetery, Section Westlake, 7801 W. Montrose Ave., Norridge (please use the entrance east of Cumberland and west of Canfield). Toby’s service will be livestreamed at www.goldmanfuneralgroup.com. In lieu of flowers, contributions would be appreciated to the charity of your choice. Info: The Goldman Funeral Group (847) 478-1600.



Arrangements by Goldman Funeral Group. www.goldmanfuneralgroup.com

Memorial Events

Service

Date & Time Friday 05/23/2025 at 12:00 PM

Address Westlawn Cemetery

7801 W. Montrose Avenue
Norridge, IL 60706

Phone (773) 625-8600

OfficiatorRabbi Aaron Braun

Interment

Address Westlawn Cemetery
7801 W. Montrose Avenue
Norridge, IL 60706

Reception

Address Max and Benny's Restaurant
461 Waukegan Road
NORTHBROOK, IL 60062

Additional Information
Friday from the cemetery (approximately 2:00 p.m.) to 6:00 p.m.

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