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In Loving Memory of

Mitchell H. Messer

October 22nd, 2018

Obituary

Mitchell H. Messer, 89, beloved husband and best friend of Joyce, nee Siegel, for 67 wonderful years; loving father of Jeff Messer and Pamela (the late John) Patton; cherished grandpa of Cady Patton; devoted son of the late Ruth and Emanuel Messer; dear brother of Steve (the late Ann) Arvin. Mitchell was a devoted counselor and mentor to many through his work as the founder of the Anger Institute. He was the author of numerous books, and was often invited to share his expertise on television and radio programs. Chapel service Thursday 2:45 PM at Shalom Memorial Funeral Home, 1700 W. Rand Road, Arlington Heights. Interment Shalom Memorial Park. In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Alzheimer's Association. For information and condolences, (847) 255-3520 or www.shalom2.com

Memorial Events

Shalom Chapel Service

Date & Time Thursday 10/25/2018 at 02:45 PM

Address Shalom Memorial Funeral Home
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights, IL 60004

Interment

Address Shalom Memorial Park
1700 W. Rand Road
Arlington Heights

Shiva

Messer Residence
3903 Cleveland Street
Skokie, Illinois 60076

Thursday following the service through the evening
Friday 1 PM to 4 PM

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