What Is the Yahrzeit?
The word ‘Yahrzeit’ is Yiddish and translated to mean "time of year." In Judaism, there is a focus on carrying on the memory of those before us from generation to generation. Based on Jewish law, the Yahrzeit is the day one year following the death of a loved one as calculated in accordance with the Hebrew calendar. This remembrance is performed annually by reciting the Mourner’s Kaddish and burning a Yahrzeit candle for 24 hours. Traditionally, the observance begins on the anniversary of the Hebrew date of death and the candle is lit at sunset. When a death occurs after sunset, the following day is used to observe the Yahrzeit.
How to Calculate and Remember the Yahrzeit
How Do I Find Out the Correct Hebrew Yahrzeit Date?
Honoring the Yahrzeit - The Lighting of Candles
On the Yahrzeit, a Yahrzeit candle is lit at sundown. This custom takes place every year. Mourners use a special ‘Yahrzeit candle’ that is designed to burn for 24 hours. These candles, similar to Shabbat candles, should burn during the entire Yahrzeit and extinguish on their own. Although traditionally, this ritual involves burning an actual candle, it is also permitted to use an electric Yahrzeit lamp due to potential safety issues.
While the lighting of a Yarhzeit candle is not prescribed by Jewish law, it is considered an essential minhag (or "custom") that honors the loved one and his or her memory.
During the initial structured period of mourning, the shiva, which begins upon arriving at the mourner’s home immediately following the funeral, it is customary to burn a candle each day.
In addition to lighting a candle on the anniversary of the death, the Yahrzeit candle is also lit on four other designated days of the year, called Yizkor dates.
What’s the Meaning of the Yahrzeit Candle?
In Chapter 20, verse 27 of the Book of Proverbs, it provides: "The soul of man is the candle of God. The Yahrzeit candle reminds people of the fragility of life and encourages them to embrace their life and that of their loved ones. A candle is often believed to be a symbol of the soul. This is one of the core reasons that candles are such an integral part of the Jewish religion.
Although Jewish law sets forth a structured period of mourning and traditionally provides that mourners not overly grieve the loss of a loved one, the Yahrzeit is one of the rituals each year when it is encouraged to remember, memorialize, honor and commemorate loved ones.
Who Can You Light Candles For?
Usually, people light Yahrzeit candles for close family members, including parents, a spouse, children and siblings. Lighting candles for others, such as boyfriends and girlfriends or grandparents, is also acceptable.
If there is a family where the deceased falls into one of those categories for multiple members of the household, only one candle needs to be lit.
Yahrzeit Prayers - The Mourner's Kaddish
When the Yahrzeit candle is lit, the intent and focus for individuals is to take time out of the day to remember, honor and celebrate the life of the loved one. Traditionally, you will find that the Mourner’s Kaddish is recited on the Yahrzeit. It is customary and suggested that family and friends use this time to share stories and reflect upon the person who has passed and the legacy he or she has left behind.
Yahrzeit Reminders Via Email
Our sister website, National Jewish Memorial Wall (NJMW.org), provides an electronic Yahrzeit Reminder as an easy way to remember both the English and Hebrew Yahrzeit dates for loved ones.
Each year, NJMW.org will send an email, along with a copy of the Mourner's Kaddish, to honor the memory of a loved one. You'll have the option to set a reminder for yourself as well as for family members and friends.
Set Complimentary Electronic Yahrzeit Reminders
Let us help you remember the English or Hebrew dates for the Yahrzeit of your loved ones by sending you a free electronic reminder.
Yahrzeit & Yitzkor Date Calculator
Below your can enter the date of passing and determine the appropriate dates to observe Yahrzeit & Yitzkor according to the Hebrew Calendar and Holiday Schedule. You will be able to view and download a list of both English and Hebrew dates.