Flowers and the Jewish Mourning Tradition

Unlike in the Catholic mourning tradition, where flowers are generally considered symbols of respect and condolence, and may adorn the casket of the deceased, flowers are typically not a part of the Jewish mourning tradition. Sending flowers to a burial or funeral service, or the home of family members, is not widely practiced in Jewish communities. There are some Jewish communities that believe the life cycle of flowers should not be interrupted or cut short in order to create floral arrangements for a funeral. Making contributions in the deceased individual’s name, sending condolence items, such as a fruit basket or meat platter, or making a shiva call are more appropriate ways to honor the deceased. Because flowers do not last for a very long period, donations that can have a lasting impact on the community are considered more suitable ways to honor the decedent's memory.